This week I found a video on YouTube called: "Why men and women can't be friends" and it's funny that when they ask if men and women can be just friends all the girls say yes and guys say no. In my opinion men and women can be friends but there's always some physical attraction. Let's see, women develop attraction through intimacy why men develop it through proximity. When you're down, you'll call your guy friend, you tell him how you feel, he's there for you, makes you feel happy, knows you like no one else - that's intimacy. When men see a woman in a coffee shop and doesn't know her he might even flirt with her, but normally he's not gonna talk to her and invite her for dinner (this is not like the movies), but if you both frequent the same space (e.g.: you're neighbors, you go to the same school) and he thinks your cute, he's probably going to approach you - proximity.
So my opinion is, men and women can be friends but it's not usual.
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